Welcome to part 2 of my networking event that will take place every first thursday of each month . Red Alerts ”Lets Connect is a forum that connects black ownerships and starter-ups in the Harlem community . It consists of Black owned banks , vendors and guest speakers such as well-known influencers like Ralph McDaniel .It was unselfish community of love and support fun and great networking . I can’t wait until the next event . It’s about pouring love back into our community villages with all the national gentrification going on the black community must thrive from one another and support one another . Please enjoy some of the visuals at the lounge MIST located in Harlem .
Hey Guys ! Its has been a minute since I have written a blog . How ever this one is special , because It’s not about Fashion . It’s about a talented man , black man who didn’t always believe in himself. Terrence Terrell; model, actor, and added; Arthur . Terrence Terrell did not always believe himself . You may know him from major video plays with Beyoncé , Lady GaGa , Nbc ,Showtime, Fox show appearances. And currently Criminal Minds.
But Before the bright lights and big stars , Terrence has not always love who he was , like most of us ,(women). Society will have you believe that only women have self-love issues . He grew up feeling awkward and known as the ugly duckling . Well we know what happens in that story . She /he turns into the swan . Terrance was teased about his nose , head, his voice . All the negative drama is enough to stagnate ones life. But he manages to overcome all theses adversities into triumphs . By rising bigger than his flaws . Terrence has released his new book called ”Blacky’. An uplifting story about a young boy’s journey to self-confidence . It’s about a young man realizing how to appreciate himself . This was a much-needed positive piece of love to add to our children and adults of our society.
Terrence just wrapped up his feature in Arianna Grande’s video ,”Everyday”. And still appearing on new episodes of ”Criminal Minds.”
I Recently learned that lies eventually never lie down . They always seem to wake up , burst out of seams , or spill out from some strange world. My gut instincts always tell me when something isn’t right . It’s what I call Gods warnings we ignore at times . My title of this blog simply means , if you do not settle your ugliest of past pain and drama . You can ultimately leave your future endeavors , dreams stagnant . For instance , you look for jobs but you have a history of drug use or felony history. What to you do ? Are you upfront about it ? or do you lie? Another example , You’re in a relationship , But your companion still has deeply rooted issues that block his/ and hers future ? And its taking years to resolve it . It is a strong possibility your partner is already contemplating an escape out that relationship. So make sure all your old chapters are closed . Because secrets always tell truths and untruths.
I normally write about fashion and entertainment but something seemingly annoyed the shit out of me today . I was watching the news and you would have thought someone was hurt by the way the news reporter blasted a story about a well-known blogger known as The American Mama. She apparently threw a public tantrum about how fake her world is showing how perfect life is raising her child and the perfect things that go on in her life . She apparently failed to realize that ‘’DUH’’ , motherhood is not perfect . She whined about all the sponsor pictures she has taken were fake . Um! ‘’Lady please ‘’. You signed up for this blogger life. Why not write about the ups and downs of motherhood ? Why not celebrate you losses and wins?
To make things worse she threw in a shade brag . A shade brag is when you brag and pretend to act mad about any situation just to appease others . ‘’Bye ‘’ ! Felicia ! ‘’ . Anyway , she boasted about getting $ 1500 per blog from her sponsors. (my blank stare). She said she is not comfortable anymore , as if her life was falling to hell pieces. Can someone please pay me $ 1500 per blog .So I can pay for both daughters in college. I’m so over this sense of entitled bull shit , I’m so over this privilege bullshit . Dear American Mama ,you owe it to your fans the real you . You get much more respect from being you . I bet your sponsors did not tell you that you could not . Well that is my rant blog for today . Until next time I’ ll be writing about my shitty plane trip from Texas. Later Floggers